I went on Craigslist to look at the 'casual encounters' ads, and after months of just looking, I replied to some.
We do have sex 4 to 10 times a month, but it is always plain vanilla. While my wife was barely GGG at the beginning, now she will not go down on me ever.
But after many years, children, and just day-to-day reality, our sex life is now pretty unsatisfying. I've been mostly happily married for 15 years.
